Lady Victoria Hervey - British Socialite
The Three of Diamonds Person - The Undecided Values Card
The Three of Diamonds is considered one of the more difficult of the life paths of all the cards, especially when the Three of Diamonds is a woman. Indecision in values along with past life relationship karma (Six of Hearts Karma Card) can cause many challenges in the affectional life. They also can be some of the biggest worriers about their finances. All Threes are guilty of worry and indecision and must find constructive outlets for their overactive mind to direct it away from worry and fear. The best remedy is to find some expression of their creativity. They must express themselves.
A natural interest in metaphysics should be cultivated if they are to know more peace in their lives and overcome the many hurdles and temptations. They always know what is right and wrong, though sometimes they try to ignore what they know. Not all Three of Diamonds have these problems. Operating out of the high side of this card, they are extremely creative and productive, expressing themselves in a multitude of productive ways. They can be the greatest entertainers or public speakers.
They also have very powerful minds capable of piercing the deepest and most mysterious subjects. They can also be powerful speakers once they have found something they believe in that they want to talk about. This is one of their highest forms of expression - to promote what they believe in and share it with the world.
They have more satisfaction in business where they can travel or do various different things. There is usually someone younger for whom they must make sacrifices, often one or more of their own children. With three nines in their Life Path, their later life can be disappointing, UNLESS they have developed their spiritual side, which will give them peace and wisdom. These people are here to try many 'things' on for size and then to settle on the truth. They always benefit from changes and travel and are advised to pursue a career that gives them some freedom.
Some of the Three of Diamonds Issues Concerning Relationships
Talk about challenges in love! This card runs neck and neck with the Queen of Diamonds as being the most difficult in the deck in this area. There is such great creativity in this card, that they come into this life feeling like there are boundless realms to explore and experience. At some point they realize that they also have tremendous fears of abandonment and betrayal that must be dealt with along the way. This usually manifests as multiple relationships or chronic indecision regarding matters of love and marriage. If they cannot deal with their own inner insecurities, they will usually choose to have transitory relationships. They are learning to let others be as they are and to heal their own fear and doubt in matters of love. Multiple marriages are common with this card, as with the Queen of Diamonds.
Colleen Shannon - 50th Anniversary Playboy Centerfold
The "Seven of Diamonds Person" - The Card of Spiritual Values
The Seven of Diamonds is one of those unique cards called a 'semi-fixed' card. As part of a special family of seven uniquely different cards, these people fall into a different category and have a special mark on their lives. They are very stubborn, but they are also extremely creative and some are destined to become millionaires in this life by accessing the high side of this spiritual money card. By suit, they are always connected with money. As a spiritual number, they must maintain a non-attached attitude about money or there will be continuous problems in this area. We find they are either worrying about it all the time or not worrying and having as much as they like. Regardless, many of their life lessons will come through this avenue.
The other avenue is their close relationships. Family, lovers and friends are all very important to the Seven of Diamonds person. They have close ties, for better or worse, with their family and share in their trials. They have a high, spiritual love nature that often entails making personal sacrifices for their family and other close relationships. There is little they wouldn't do on behalf of their parents or family. This is one of the most spiritual cards in the deck and as such, their success comes from approaching life in ways other than traditional or materialistic. The most successful among them are the ones that live in the faith that all their needs will always be provided.
They are usually restless, making frequent changes in either occupation or location. Their love life usually entails sacrifice and disappointment until they learn to let others go and be as they are. In their spiritual studies they find inner satisfaction and validation for their own intuition. Once on the spiritual path, everything in their life is put into proper perspective and they can excel in any chosen field.
Some of the Seven of Diamonds Issues Concerning Relationships
For such a spiritual card as the Seven of Diamonds, issues in relationships revolve around letting go of personal attachments and developing a more spiritual approach to love. They are, by nature, very loving people and are willing to make sacrifices on behalf of those they love. There are bound to have one or more karmic love involvements that challenge them to raise their level of love to more spiritual and responsible heights. Like other cards, they have high ideals associated with love and partnership. But these people are more or less destined to have these ideals tested every step along the way. Their stubbornness and independence attracts powerful relationships into their life, ones that teach them important lessons.
Most Seven of Diamonds females are attracted to, and often marry men of the Heart suit. They also hold some fantasies about Diamond men. The male Seven of Diamonds is attracted to Spade females and usually has many Club females as friends and associates. Club males challenge the Seven of Diamonds female.
Shane Lynch- ex-Boyzone Singer
"Queen of Diamonds" - Destiny Prediction (excerpt)
This year you are working on a heart and emotional level in a big way. Perhaps you are in a business that has a lot of people contacts and you need more success in selling your ideas or in getting more cooperation. Just as likely your role as a father has come into focus and you have decided to put more energy into it. This is the 'Father Card' and can represent a year when you, as a man, may really want to become a father. [He said this to Colleen on Love Island on the July 21 video. Not that he wanted to be married, but that he wanted to be a 'father.' To see the video: Click Here]
On a deeper level you may have decided to take a more mature and responsible role with your emotions. Perhaps you are doing therapy and working on cleaning up past debris that blocks your present happiness. [Shane quit the show to be reunited with a woman he had been dating. Throughout the show Shane never got involved with any of the women in anything more than a patonic relationship.]
Some of the 'Queen of Diamonds' Issues Concerning Relationships
The Queen of Diamonds has some of the most difficult challenges that exist in the area of love. Being headstrong and proud, fond of variety, afraid of being abandoned and having the power to get what they want when they want it can be a troublesome combination. Three or more marriages is common for this card and even when they seem happily settled down, it is usually only temporary. They are quite charming and have a bit of charisma that makes it easy for them to start new relationships. The challenge for them is sustaining the relationship once it is started. They usually get their wishes, for better or worse, and must live with the consequences of their desires.
Leo Ihenacho & Bianca Gascoigne
Love Report (excerpt)
They share a 'Moon' Connection
Of all the connections that exist among the cards in the deck, the Moon connection is probably the single most powerful one in many ways. When someone is our Moon card or when we are theirs, we feel very close and comfortable with them. The strength of this 'connected feeling' can make any two people with this connection feel as though they are very much alike and can work or coexist together harmoniously. As powerful as it is, however, there are certain things about it that must be understood in order to make the most of it.
First of all the Moon Card connection has a direction to it. This means that it affects both people differently. The Moon Card connection is essentially based upon the Sun and Moon. The Sun gives, the Moon receives. The Sun leads, the Moon follows. The Sun is Fire, the Moon is water. For this relationship to really work, each must be willing to play the appropriate role with the other in this regard. In this relationship, Bianca is a Moon Card influence to Leo. Therefore, is is Leo who must play the Sun, or leadership role in this relationship for it to be most successful. If Leo has a clear direction and sticks to it, Bianca can find their own place with him and play the supportive Moon role with him.
Now this connection can make two people the very best friends in the world or the best business partners. Leo brings fresh ideas and new insights into the life of Bianca. He can bring a lot of new direction and inspiration to Bianca, provided she is open to it. Likewise Bianca brings a sense of stability and security to Leo. She makes Leo feel supported and nurtured on some level. This mutual giving and receiving is what makes this connection so special.
This connection can be found among some of the most successful relationships in the world. However, what happens if Bianca or Leo do not wish to play these roles? For example, what if Bianca wanted to be the leader of this relationship and direct their activities together? What if she just didn't want to play the supportive or nurturing role? Or what if Leo did not have any clear direction or didn't want to be the leader? In this case, this relationship could take on one of many forms, but disharmony would exist between them that would ultimately drive them apart. There can also be a lot of bickering and competition between people with this connection if they are resisting the natural flow of the energy, much like siblings who are jealous over their parents' affections.
However, in most cases the Moon connection makes for a close and strong friendship that can benefit Bianca and Leo in many ways. It adds a great deal to their overall compatibility and gives them a real reason to be close or to hang out together.
Affirmation for Bianca: I am very grateful for Leo's presence in my life. He is a breath of fresh air that is always bringing me new and wonderful things. I enjoy our communication together and enjoy being Leo's support person in whatever way that is possible. Ours is one of the closest relationships I know and I value it as such.
Affirmation for Leo: I am grateful for the presence of Bianca in my life. I feel that I have found a perfect partner/friend/companion that supports me in the directions that I feel are important in my life. I enjoy sharing my insights with him and I appreciate all the wonderful things that she does for me and our easy and natural communications.
Relationship Report (excerpt) for Colleen & Lee
Colleen is the 'Saturn' Card to Lee
Saturn has traditionally been known as the planet of hardship, coldness and difficulties of all kinds. And in fact there are some Saturn relationships in which these qualities predominate. However, there are many Saturn relationships that have other qualities, and in these we see the more positive aspects of Saturn's influence. We cannot predict exactly how this relationship between Colleen and Lee will be affected by this connection because that will depend upon how consciously they choose to apply the energy of this connection. It can be very constructive or it can be difficult and depressing. So, here we will define some of the qualities more specifically so that it can be understood fully.
In this relationship Lee has somehow chosen Colleen to be his teacher. Though this may not have been a completely conscious choice, it is so just the same. Colleen, being Lee's Saturn Card, will experience a natural inclination to help Lee by making suggestions for improving his life, career, or situation. Just having Colleen in his life is a reminder to Lee of things he needs to do in order to make his life better than it is. A Saturn person teaches us how to be more responsible, grown-up, practical, disciplined, conscientious and fair. They will help us to become more aware of how our words and actions affect those around us. These lessons can result in Lee becoming more successful in his work, especially if he has strong career aspirations or goals of things he wants to attain. On some level, Colleen is a father figure to his and indeed she may remind Lee of his father in many ways.
Taken with a positive attitude, Lee may make great progress in his life by the presence of Colleen. The closer this connection is to being the first connection in this relationship, the more important this relationship is for Lee in terms of what he needs to learn. The best possible attitude would be where Lee acknowledges Colleen as his teacher or guide. Not that he needs to give up his own thoughts or beliefs to Colleen, but just that there are probably things that he can learn from her.
Affirmation for Colleen: I understand that I have the ability to see all of Lee's faults and shortcomings and share suggestions with him compassionately and with the awareness that I have a powerful effect on him.
Affirmation for Lee: I realize that I chose this relationship with Colleen to help me grow in important areas of my life. With that in mind, I accept her suggestions so that I may learn and make progress in becoming a successful and happy person.
Colleen is the Pluto Card to Lee
Colleen and Lee share a very powerful connection that is sure to affect them both in a powerful way. However, it will affect Lee the most as the Pluto energy is directed at him. Someone who is our Pluto Card has qualities and character traits that will challenge us and inspire us to change ourselves, whether we like it or not. When we attract someone who is our Pluto Card, it is as if we have a secret desire to make some important changes in our life and need the reflection that someone else can offer us in order to effect this change. And this is what it is for Lee because Colleen is a transformative influence in his life.
This connection often produces a powerful attraction, especially in the beginning of the relationship. It can seem to be a magnetic energy or even fate, that draws them together. It has even been associated with obsessive or compulsive behaviors of various kinds, however this is in extreme cases. The attraction may be compared to the attraction of a moth to a flame, because ultimately our Pluto person will cause us to burn in the fires of our own personal transformation.
Relationship Report (excerpt) for Chris & Colleen
Mars Connection:
This connection provides a lot of the spark, fire, and magic in this relationship. If Chris and Colleen use it with care, it can bring them much of what they want out of life. Any negative manifestations of this powerful energy can be controlled and eliminated through conscious awareness and when this is the case, it becomes like a genie in a bottle who can grant them all their wishes.
Chris's Birth Card is the same as Colleen's Planetary Ruling Card
There are several connections that are commonly found among successful relationships between people. This Birth Card / Planetary Ruling Card match between Chris and Colleen is one such connection. This connection alone is no guarantee that this relationship will be successful. It is important to look at all the connections before making any sort of determination of that nature. However, this connection provides a lot of elements that are requirements of successful relationships and thus is a very good sign of great potential.
First of all we know that Chris and Colleen feel very close to each other. There are some important aspects of their lives and personalities that are a close, if not perfect, fit. When we meet someone that seems to be so much like us, we are usually drawn to this, even if we don't know why. Most of us truly desire compatibility and understanding from our friends and partners. This connection goes a long way towards fulfilling this desire.
Next we know that Chris is naturally supportive of Colleen and her self-expression. He wants her to have more success in her life and will do things to promote Colleen's success. If she is in a business Chris will introduce her to the right people. Chris will probably make a point of introducing her to many people anyway. It is his wish that Colleen be happy and well-accepted by everyone he knows. These intentions and efforts by Chris creates a real energy of mutual appreciation in this relationship that is noticeable and powerful. Others who see Chris and Colleen together will feel this aura of mutual support and get a lift from it. Others may even comment on how compatible their relationship seems. For these reasons, this relationship is very beneficial business-wise and career-wise for both of them.
There is something about this bond that supports being together comfortably, about being able to live together successfully, and about enjoying every minute of it. Thus is an encouraging sign for any sort of relationship. Just having found someone with whom they share such a good connection is a good omen for both of them. It is an auspicious sign that denotes some good karma for both Chris and Colleen. It reflects some good deeds that each of them has done sometime in their past, whether it was in this lifetime or some other.
But once again, keep in mind that there are other connections to consider and even more important that there are other factors to consider before determining how this particular relationship will pan out. This is only one connection among many. But if Chris and Colleen are in some important relationship to each other, this connection is more than a good start.
Affirmation for Chris: I feel very close to Colleen and appreciate how she and I have so much in common. I also enjoy encouraging her to be more of herself. I want Colleen to shine her brightest.
Affirmation for Colleen: I love the affinity I feel to Chris. I feel especially supported by his encouraging nature and appreciate his presence in my life. We are good for each other and I am thankful for this.
Colleen's PRC '9 of Clubs'
This ruling card adds a spiritual overtone to your personality, along with a desire to be of benefit to others, or the world at large. Many with this card dedicate themselves to some noble purpose. This is one of the sexiest cards in the deck and you may find that romance is a very important area of your life. Mentally, you have probably suffered many setbacks and in some cases, this could affect your outlook on life. You are kind-hearted and others may come to you for solace and a shoulder to cry on. Just don't let them take unfair advantage of your kindness. You are very protective of children and want to see them receive the highest care. You may find you are drawn to spiritual studies, since they best explain some of your feelings about life and the occasional mental 'awakenings' that you experience.
Chris' Birthcard - 9 of Clubs (Also known as the 'Sexy 9 of Clubs')
Some of their life challenges revolve around honesty and integrity. They are often involved with others who are not so high in these areas and this can pull them down. They are here to learn to focus their mental power and stick to a philosophy that will guide them through the ups and downs of life.
Some of the Nine of Clubs Issues Concerning Realtionships
The Nine of Clubs is a loving and highly sexed individual. They actually love romance more than marriage and perhaps this is why some of them have extra-marital affairs. They are also very devoted to their children. There is destined to be one or more very challenging relationships in their life as they have a need to grow up and learn about the responsibilities involved in a true partnership. It is also likely that they will have one major divorce in their life that will alter their life course.
The Nine of Clubs has high love ideals and can be romantic to the extreme. Often, this fragile dream of love comes crashing against the rocks of reality and misplaced hopes and dreams, and they do suffer as a result.
Chris' Planetary Ruling Card - Jack of Spades
This ruling card adds a strong, creative urge to your personality that could manifest in several ways. First of all, you may feel drawn towards acting or some form of artistic expression. Even if you are not, you have a lot of creativity that you do apply to whatever work you are doing. The Jack of Spades is also called the card of the 'thief' and because of the strong creative influence, people with this card often make few distinctions in the areas of honesty when it comes to getting what they want. [Chris was in prison shortly before being on Love Island.] This card is one of the 'one-eyed' Jacks. Therefore, others may see you as being one-sided in your opinions and attitudes. This is also the card of the spiritual initiate. You may feel drawn towards the study of spiritual subjects which can transform your life to a higher level.
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Bianca Gascoigne
Callum Best
[8/11 I talked about Callum being a 6 of Spades, but I never had the opportunity to talk about the connection between Bianca and Callum, so I don't have a video to back this up. But I think it's still worth posting it 'unofficially.' First read a bit about Callum:
Some of the Six of Spades Issues Concerning Relationships
The Six of Spades cannot stop thinking about love and romance. At the same time they tend to have a somewhat mental approach to the whole situation that causes them to undergo many experiences, both up and down, while they gather experience to back up their concepts and ideas. They can tend to be drawn into multiple relationships and this usually has negative consequences for them. They would do better to examine their hidden fear of not getting enough affection that underlies these attempts.
Both sexes are attracted to those of intelligence and wit. They can be crafty or dishonest in love matters, much like the Five of Diamonds and Six of Diamonds, and must avoid trapping themselves in their own stories and beliefs.
[What I didn't have time to explain was why I knew, without a doubt, that Callum would not be the one for Bianca - instead it would be Leo. Read about the 'moon' connection between Bianca & Leo]
Callum is the Pluto Card to Bianca:
This connection produces a sort of 'fated' quality to relationships. Because of a past life of being together, Callum and Bianca may feel drawn together by some unexplainable force, in order to complete some issues they left unresolved in that former time together. Essentially, there was unfinished business in which Callum was a catalyst for Bianca's transformation on a deep level. In this lifetime this business may have a chance to be completed if both partners are aware of this connection and its implications. In particular, Bianca is being offered a chance to effect an important inner transformation in her life.
Callum represents certain qualities or characteristics that are a part of Bianca's personal transformation in this lifetime. He may challenge Bianca at times, making her feel confronted or even threatened. This may or may not be intentional because in Pluto relationships merely the presence of the Pluto person is enough to effect a significant change in the other person. Each of us has a Pluto Card that represents an important area in our life where we need to die and be reborn in some way. It represents something or things that we need to let go of or change in order to progress to the next step in our personal evolution. Someone who is our Pluto Card will in some way remind us of this change we need to make and at the same time, act as a catalyst to get that change happening. However, they are rarely aware of the importance of this role that they play.
[After reading this report I realized that Callum was 'teaching' Bianca about fantasy. This is a lesson we all learn - usually in our teenage years or twenties. For those who saw 'Love Island' in 2006 - it was easy to see that Callum played an important role in Bianca's inner transformation. When Leo jumped out of the wedding cake, it was certainly a 'death & rebirth' moment for Bianca. She had to really look carefully at who she was being and the need to show up 'responsibly' for others, especially in terms of emotional connections. She completely changed the way she was 'playing the game' and became sensitive to her relationship with Leo, but Callum was the catalyst!]
